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Unique Gifts To Give At The Close Of Escrow

Wednesday, November 23rd, 2011

I am not a fan of flying. I was, until recently, scared of heights. I don’t know anything about the dynamics of flying other than it seems a bit unconventional for a human but not birds. I do, in fact, love those that have mastered the skill of navigating the wind.

My father died 6 weeks after I was born and I never knew him. But, when I was growing up my mom, who was my idol, always told me, “Take care of the people around you. Be attentive to what their needs are. That is what you father did with me and, since he isn’t here, I think he would want me to share that with you”. When I was growing up I didn’t realize how that would come in to play in my real estate career.

I had a former client that had been referred to me by a mutual friend that was also my former client. This new potential client had a family and two young children (boy and a girl) and he was a bit down on his luck. I went to his house and met with him to discuss listing his house. He proceeded to tell me how his family had hit hard times and he vowed to his wife and two kids, especially the oldest one (a young girl), that they would be okay. It was a typical meeting that didn’t strike me as being too far off the beaten path of any other listing meeting.

Afterwards, he invited me to stay for a cook out. I obliged and hung out with them for a few hours. I watched as the house filled up with families and children from all over the neighborhood. Me, being a single guy and not being accustomed to being around kids, I was nearly at my whits end but, I stuck around to be respectful. And, boy was I glad that I did.

His oldest (about 9 at the time, a girl) came up to me during the the party and said, ‘ Dad said you are going to save us.’ I didn’t know what to say so I said what any single guy with no kids that was terrified would say, ‘Hey, what’s your name.’ She said, ‘My name is Taylor, and I wanna fly. Watch this’. She spread her arms out and pretended like she was flying in to the pool and dove in. We all laughed hysterically. She was a character.

Later, out of curiosity I asked her why she wanted to fly so much. She told me that her grandfather had been a pilot and that he had flown planes from the ‘cotchpits’ before. I told her that we would see what we could do about ‘getting her up in the air some day’.

While this family didn’t want to leave their home and move away it turned out to be the circumstance that benefited them the most. The home sold, they moved in to another home and got on with their lives. After the close of escrow I scheduled a little surprise for them.

They all arrived, unsuspecting. We got in my car and drove about 5 miles to Temecula, CA. As we rolled up to the launch site the kids went crazy. We, along with the guide, launched in to the atmosphere and had so much fun. The smile on that little girls face was priceless. When we landed and were about to leave the little girl came up to me and said, ‘Thank you. You are my hero.” My mom would have been proud.

This gift cost me less than $500 for all 5 of us. When you close your next deal. Think of something unusual. Think of something that will make a lasting impression. Go beyond the call of duty.

They say it takes all kinds to make the world, but I can’t help thinking what a much better world it would be if there were more people like my mom, my client and his family.

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Guidelines For A Successful Stag Party

Friday, July 8th, 2011

Popularity has been gained by the stag parties quickly and if someone wants to get their benefit then certain things should be avoided. Etiquettes are also important along with the party activities and enjoyment.

Some of the significant ‘cardinal rules’ that should be followed in stag parties for having utmost fun are mentioned below.

1. If someone amongst your friends isn’t feeling comfortable for something then he/she shouldn’t be pushed for that as this may only result in ruining your friend’s mood. It is often considered better to avoid this kind of activities.

2. Party should not be planned in the week of marriage and this will be counted as a stupid thing to do so. It is simply a blunder if the stag party is arranged one day before the day of marriage.

3. It is a party being held by you for the groom, with your friends. It is taboo to take a contribution from the friend who is getting married. It does not necessarily mean you should bear the entire expense. Friends will be happy to contribute and a neat budget for a successful party can be made.

4. Fun and frolic are important for stag parties. There are limits to everything and the rule applies to this celebration also. Some of the items which may be fun to some may not be liked by others. It is better to take care that, by proper planning that such events are not included in the celebration. The actions of the participants also should not offend anybody. Your friends should be clearly told about this.

5. Never try to invite some guest before asking the groom and the guests from the side of bride should not also be invited. You will just appear to be a moron to the friends as soon as the stag party passes.

6. It is purposeless to try to catch all the action in a camera.

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Fear Of Driving: The Explanation Behind

Monday, June 27th, 2011

You may never be able to describe someone that fears driving and this at times is a result of an experience one has gone through in this regard. It is, however, possible for anyone to develop this condition.

When you think about why people fear driving, many things may come to realization but it isn’t determined by gender, race, age group or religion. An experienced driver is in most cases the party that will be scared of driving because they could have experienced a traumatic event one time. There are people who have never driven a car before but have the fear of driving.

Some people get involved in accidents and these events are usually traumatic. This may be one of the reasons someone fears to drive even if they were just passengers during that accident.

It’s however more evident that the highest cause of fear of driving is if an individual was driving and they were involved in an accident.

People may always get flashes of the incident mostly if it was a head on collision and this will be a very frightening experience. Someone may keep getting these images as long as they live and never get back to the driving experience.

Someone may recover from the dangerous accident and drive again but when they reach the area the accident took place, this will cause them to remember all the events of the day and this causes panic at times. This may even force them to just quit driving because they may not be able to handle the fear.

When people are involved in hit and run conditions as victims, they will develop a fear of driving even if they were not the actual drivers.

Some people that have been victims of hit and run accidents may be bothered by the possibility that they have to drive in future. This is because they may have fears of putting another person into a similar position and cause them to suffer as well.

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How To Avoid Financial Problems In A Marriage

Tuesday, June 14th, 2011

Marriage can end when there are problems. Problems regarding money can take its toll on couples who have been living together for quite some time now. So, how can couples stop themselves from breaking up to face their money problems? Here’s how.

Problems are never solved when you two argue. Take a step back and see what needs to be done for both of you to solve the problem. It is no use to argue a lot about spoiled milk. It is much better that both of you seek plans on how you can better your lives as a couple.

When bills arrive, pay them instantly. Do not wait until you have spent half of your monthly income to pay your bills. It will take a chunk out of your money. Paying them the moment the bills arrive is a sure way to avoid debts.

Saving money is the fundamental law to solving debts. The moment you save money is the moment you say to yourself that you are doing this to take my debt off. Live life frugally for the moment up until you have no more debts to pay and you will reap what you sow.

To bring all of the family closer together, let everyone speak up and discuss openly what their problems are including money. Let everyone have their input in finding a solution even the kids.

Never ever hide a secret as deadly as a debt to your spouse or it will create chaos within your relationship. If you are in debt to someone, tell your spouse about it so that both of you can reach an understanding and plan an action to solve the problem together.

Take the time to celebrate and congratulate yourself for a job well done if you have made a dent on your debt. This can only mean that you can actually do something to help pay your debt. It might be just a simple family dinner just as long as you have a reason to celebrate.

Save the blame and focus on your plans to work out the kinks of your marriage including the problems you have right now as a family. There is no room for blaming and it should stay that way.

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Ancient Medicines

Thursday, June 9th, 2011

As you all know, the way that it works with medicine is: you get sick, you go to the medical doctor, he/she gives you a prescription, you buy that, take it and hopefully make a full recovery. In a way, it has always been like that. Individuals went to the most skilled person in the village for advice on how to cure an ailment, a couple of herbs were prescribed and a donation was given.

The only real difference in the method nowadays is that then, there was a far higher general awareness of the power of herbs. These days, in the Developed World at least, the medical profession and the pharmaceuticals have managed to wean us off herbs by one manner or another – usually fear.

The fact is that most drugs are manufactured from herbs or plants or from synthesized chemicals found in herbs and plants. In a way, all we have done is substituted buying for picking.

OK, I know that it is more complicated than that. Drugs are often combinations that work well together and being told to take one tablet a day saves you having to worry about overdosing, but there are still often side-effects. Just read the leaflet inside the box of your next box of pills.

Mine says: anxiety, fainting, erectile dysfunction, low blood pressure, diarrheoa and heart failure. Enchanting, isn’t it? They are pills for high blood pressure (beta-blockers). I live in a small village in northern Thailand, where high blood pressure is not a difficulty, but I know one old lady who has it and high cholesterol and her nurse showed her which tree to choose leaves from to make a tea. She does not take tablets, but I still do.

There is also a woman who began coming into our garden four months ago to select purple flowers off a kind of wisteria that we grow (dork anchan). ‘It is for my son’s very bad cough’, she said. Asthma, I think she meant.

Anyway, she plucks a handful a week and her son is fine. I had a cough at Christmas and tried it myself. I drank two cups of tea before retiring to bed and I drank the cold dregs in the morning, but my cough had already gone.

The hottest time of the year here is March – May, after which it is still hot but the monsoons come and cool it down. Last year, for the first time in my life I suffered from prickly heat in the hot snap. This year it began again, but someone suggested Aloe Vera.

‘Naturally’, said my wife and went into the garden to cut some. She cut two small ‘leaves’ and I spent three days smearing the sap onto the affected parts. It had almost gone on the second day, but it vanished on the third day and has not returned in spite of the fact that it has become hotter since then.

A great deal of people are taking another look at traditional medicines and I am going to be one of them. The difficulty in our village is that my Thai is not fluent, just my wife speaks some English and individuals are frightened to talk of the old methods in case I think that they are backward.

Owen Jones, the writer of this article, writes on a number of topics, but is now concerned with the macular degeneration test. If you would like to know more, please visit our website at Macular Degenerative Disease

Places Where People Live Long

Tuesday, June 7th, 2011

Most people do not relish death. They want to live a long life and attempt to stay eternally young. The peoples of each country spend billions every year on health care and beauty products.

Some people believe that the length of time you live is written in fate and there is nothing that you can do to change it, others think that we just have a certain number of heart beats, but most individuals think that genetics, diet and lifestyle are the major influences.

However, there might be another factor worth looking at: your town of residence. There are a few places around the world where people seem to live longer, on average, than is standard for their country or globally.

Take the city of Okinawa in southern Japan. Okinawa has more than a million inhabitants, 900 of whom are over 100 years of age. Japan has an aging populace in general, but nowhere there matches Okinawa for longevity and the percentage of centenarians is between four and five times greater than in the UK or the USA.

Not just do Okinawans live longer, but they also tend to stay healthy until their dying days, which is everyone’s dream. Diet is thought to be the main reason why Okinawans live such long, healthy lives. They eat a great deal of fish, tofu, soya and seaweed and swill it down with lots of tea.

This makes their diet low in saturated fats and pretty low in salt. However, it is also a widely-held belief in Okinawa that one should only consume until one is 80% full not 100% This may put less strain on the digestive system, but no one is quite certain yet if this has a bearing on living a longer, healthy life.

Then there is Loma Linda in California, the USA. The citizens of Loma Linda live an average of five to ten years longer than the residents of near-by towns. The town is predominantly Seventh Day Adventist, which preaches vegetarianism, no smoking and no alcohol. Some will point to these reasons as the reasons for living longer.

However, this does not account for why nearly everybody, even the smoking, alcohol-drinking, meat-eating inhabitants, lives longer. Others put the longevity down to religious belief, but researchers are mystified. Maybe going to church and relying on God relieves believers of some of the stress of daily life and stress is famous to be a cause of major diseases.

Another strange place is Owoda on the Mediterranean island of Sardinia. It is just a village of less than 2,000 residents but it has far more than the average number of 100 year olds than elsewhere. What is even stranger is that there are as many old men as old women which is not the standard anywhere else in the world.

The well-known Mediterranean diet and the pleasant climate are thought to be reasons at play here, but it might also have something to do with their genes. The residents were practically isolated for hundreds of years and marriage among relatives was not uncommon. Usually this is not recommended because it can cause abnormalities. It looks like the abnormality that inter-marriage caused for the Owodans is longevity.

Owen Jones, the author of this piece, writes on a variety of topics, but is now concerned with the cause of macular degeneration. If you want to know more, please go to our website at Macular Degenerative Disease

Vision Improvement

Saturday, June 4th, 2011

We are under great pressure not to look old, not to look our age. One of the best compliments people of more than 21 years think that they can receive is: ‘Really? You do not look it!’ To a certain extent this obsession with a youthful appearance has always been with us, but the pressure has ratcheted up due to films and television.

Film stars and pharmaceutical businesses unscrupulously team up to persuade us that we have to have this surgery too in order to be popular. What they do not tell you is that the pharmaceutical businesses have paid the film stars to have free therapy and then paid (or sponsored) the chat shows that so blatantly advertise them.

And ageism is rife as well, both among the young, whose worst insults normally have the word ‘old’ included and among employers who can not wait to get rid of employees at 65 after a lifetime of service. Governments or at least some governments are exactly as bad, penalizing pensioners with a meager salary after fifty years of paying taxes.

People used to grow old gracefully, now it is a sin. There is a long list of ‘improvements’ that you can work your way through: face lift, liposuction, hair transplants, dentures and several others, but the one that actually makes sense to me is sight improvement by whatever technique works.

We live in a picturesque world and it is a pity that while we are at the right stage in our life to enjoy it – that is whilst we have more time, more money and have become more reflective, we start to go blind. Just as your grandchildren start arriving, your sight starts going.

There are numerous reasons why you could start losing your vision besides only old age, but old age does play a role in some of them too.

Macular degeneration is usually known as age-related macular degeneration, but there is a rare kind that affects the young. There are two types wet and dry. The dry form is less severe, but the wet kind is more easily treated.

Cataracts are thought to be age-related as well, but I had premature senile cataracts 20 years early. Luckily these are easily treated too with merely a couple of minutes of surgery. Glaucoma is a nasty one, which can leave you totally blind, if you do not catch it soon enough and have it treated.

The key to success with all of these eyesight impairments is tackling them early. If you suspect that anything is not right with your eyes, go to a GP or optician immediately. Do not be fooled by quack cures that you might see advertised on late night TV or in the small ads. They ought to get banned.

Eye exercises and eye drops are all right for healthy eyes, but they will not help you if you have a difficulty, only a fully qualified expert can do that. These advertisers prey on individuals who either do not have the money for surgery or who are scared of it and there are many of them about too.

Owen Jones, the author of this article, writes on a number of topics, but is now concerned with macular degeneration glasses. If you would like to know more, please go to our website at Macular Degenerative Disease

Making Sure Employees Are Healthy Through Corporate Fitness Programs

Wednesday, May 25th, 2011

There really is no need in even talking about how much more work a person can get done if they are in a good healthy condition than when vice versa. The fitter you are the better you work. The importance of this has been seen by many companies today and that is why many are quickly investing in corporate fitness programs.

Companies have seen that when they have an employee who is regularly jogging for example, he will be better suited to deal with the stress of daily work than their counterpart who is not jogging.

Take a look for example a healthy employee and another who does not watch their health. The latter will always be susceptible to injury or various diseases and thus will always be calling in sick for work. This means that the productivity of the company goes down as the individual is not there to do his tasks.

This is why so many companies are beginning to implement corporate fitness programs. These will look at the overall fitness of the employee list and then break it down further to individual employees.

The companies that can afford it make sure that they include a gym facility in their office building that the employees can use. Others will just approach a local nearby gym and get a good bulk discount for gym membership for all their employees.

When the companies are small they like to make the employees go for the exercises all together. They will assign them in groups if the company has too many employees. This will make sure that the employees not only get fit but develop a friendly competition between them while still team building.

The companies can even go further and make sure that they give the employees and their immediate family full health coverage according them facilities like free medical checkups or dietary plans.

Gone are the days when companies could afford to ignore the health of their employees. Today very few companies can compete in their respective sectors if they do not have corporate fitness programs in place.

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Causes For Developing Fear Of Driving

Wednesday, May 18th, 2011

It isn’t possible for one to simply determine why some people fear driving. Different people go through different experiences and this means their reasons differ. It would be difficult to determine why a particular person doesn’t do so.

Sometimes people go through circumstances that are similar and these experiences may inform us of why they have this fear of driving.

Car accidents are the main cause of people not desiring to drive again and this may be a general reason. Being involved in any accident is always dangerous but it is known that having to experience this event inside a car is a very threatening occurrence and scares many people.

When someone is hit by a car, they may develop fear of crossing or walking on the road because every time they do so, they remember what happened and think it may reoccur. This is also similar for someone who hit someone in a car accident. Remembering this incident may cause fear within the individual thinking if they get back on the road, they will do so again.

Even someone that was responsible for the occurrence of the accident may be bothered and fear to have to cause this accident again.

Chances are that a driver will associate the accident to their being in the car at that moment the accident occurred and to many, there are symptoms that arise as well as panic and they feel that they should never drive again.

When someone was in the car at the time of the accident and wasn’t a driver, they may develop the phobia. Someone in a hit and run accident may also have this trauma.

With all these kinds of experiences, an individual may detest the entire idea of learning how to drive a motor vehicle because they may have the fear of causing an accident of being the actual victims of the accident.

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High Amount Of Professionalism Helps Someone Get A High Rank Easier

Monday, May 16th, 2011

With agents with sophisticated knowledge joining the industry, standards of executive protection has changed very much. These people understand their role better and also the nature of the company. A few agents’ posses’ degrees and their credentials are certified. As a result, the EP industry is improving in its professionalism and performance.

Veterans and as well as rookies have to give consistent performance in the protective measure they undertake. Since, you are judged only on the basis of your performance in the last assignment, remaining focused on the job all the time is required.

For ensuring high quality, only extremely hard work, proper education about the industry and good training will help.

It is necessary that you should charter your own method for doing your work. This is possible if you show a willingness to study and learn quickly and put in hard work. Show fighting qualities and do not allow anyone to sabotage your career. All this is possible if you live a good and healthy life and also consider your career seriously always.

As a rookie, you must read books on the subject. Professionals have written very good books. You should also get a certificate from a renowned EP firm. All this will give you the necessary tools to compete with veterans in your office. Learn from programs on EP certification and after understanding them try to apply then on your job.

If you have reached the level of the veterans it means that you have done all these things. But, you can never rest on your laurels and enhancing the credential level is essential. Failure to do so will ruin your career.

During hard times competition from rookies will have to be met and only improving your credentials will help. The rookies will always trying all the time to upstage for reaching the top.

Continuous education is essential for moving up or to keep the present position. But, never give up your fighting spirit.

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